Sunday, November 29, 2009

how to help the poor nad hungry

Step 1

Visit TheHungerSite.com to donate food to the hungry online at no cost to you. This site will donate a cup of food to the hungry whenever you click the "Click Here to Give" link on the front page. Send information about this site to your friends, family and colleagues to encourage them to click as well.

Step 2

Donate your old clothing to charities like the Salvation Army and clothing bins that are run by charities. Keep in mind that some of these bins are run by businesses who profit from the sale of the clothing.

Step 3

Go to a soup kitchen in your area to help serve food to the hungry and homeless. These are usually conducted by local churches, so visit the churches in your area to inquire about the days and times for soup kitchens. Ask how you can donate food and supplies to the organization as well.

Step 4

Donate food to local pantries and food banks. These organizations offer a free or extremely cheap grocery shopping experience to people in need.

Step 5

Sign up for a newsletter that will notify you of volunteer opportunities in your area. You can start by signing up for VolunteerMatch.com. Click the "Search" tab to look for events and opportunities in your town.

Step 6

Donate money to community and national organizations that specialize in helping poor people find jobs and establish their own businesses. Kiva.org and TrickleUp.org are two such organizations.

Step 7

Use your skills and knowledge to provide a service to the poor for free or at a steep discount. For example if you are a doctor, lawyer or entrepreneur you can dedicate a portion of your time to use your knowledge to treat or advise people who are in need.

motivation

Motivation
1. Consequences – Never use threats. They’ll turn people against you. But making people aware of the negative consequences of not getting results (for everyone involved) can have a big impact. This one is also big for self motivation. If you don’t get your act together, will you ever get what you want?
2. Pleasure – This is the old carrot on a stick technique. Providing pleasurable rewards creates eager and productive people.
3. Performance incentives – Appeal to people’s selfish nature. Give them the opportunity to earn more for themselves by earning more for you.
4. Detailed instructions – If you want a specific result, give specific instructions. People work better when they know exactly what’s expected.
5. Short and long term goals – Use both short and long term goals to guide the action process and create an overall philosophy.
6. Kindness – Get people on your side and they’ll want to help you. Piss them off and they’ll do everything they can to screw you over.
7. Deadlines – Many people are most productive right before a big deadline. They also have a hard time focusing until that deadline is looming overhead. Use this to your advantage by setting up a series of mini-deadlines building up to an end result.8. Team Spirit – Create an environment of camaraderie. People work more effectively when they feel like part of team — they don’t want to let others down.
10. Recognize achievement – Make a point to recognize achievements one-on-one and also in group settings. People like to see that their work isn’t being ignored.
11. Personal stake – Think about the personal stake of others. What do they need? By understanding this you’ll be able to keep people happy and productive.
12. Concentrate on outcomes – No one likes to work with someone standing over their shoulder. Focus on outcomes — make it clear what you want and cut people loose to get it done on their own.
13. Trust and Respect – Give people the trust and respect they deserve and they’ll respond to requests much more favorably.
14. Create challenges – People are happy when they’re progressing towards a goal. Give them the opportunity to face new and difficult problems and they’ll be more enthusiastic.
15. Let people be creative – Don’t expect everyone to do things your way. Allowing people to be creative creates a more optimistic environment and can lead to awesome new ideas.16. Constructive criticism – Often people don’t realize what they’re doing wrong. Let them know. Most people want to improve and will make an effort once they know how to do it.
17. Demand improvement – Don’t let people stagnate. Each time someone advances raise the bar a little higher (especially for yourself).
18. Make it fun – Work is most enjoyable when it doesn’t feel like work at all. Let people have fun and the positive environment will lead to better results.
19. Create opportunities – Give people the opportunity to advance. Let them know that hard work will pay off.20. Communication – Keep the communication channels open. By being aware of potential problems you can fix them before a serious dispute arises.
21. Make it stimulating – Mix it up. Don’t ask people to do the same boring tasks all the time. A stimulating environment creates enthusiasm and the opportunity for “big picture” thinking.

Friday, November 13, 2009

WHEN DEATH BECOMEs YOU

Dont let grief get complicated when you trouble accepting the death and are stuck in a perpetual state of morning.


Complicated grief is a condition when the pain of the loss is so constant and severe that it keeps you from resuming your day-to-day activeties.


Symptoms Of Complicated Grief:
  • intense longing and yearning for the deceased
  • intensive thoughts or images of your loved one
  • denial of the death or sense of disbelief
  • imagining that your loved one is alive
  • searching for the person in familiar places
  • avoiding things the remaind you of your loved one
  • extreme anger or bitterness over the loss
  • feeling that life is empty or meaningless

When should i Not Colour my Hair

- The rule of thumb is to wait for at least two weeks to
colour your hair after aa perm or a texturised treatment.
The same applies when you want to change your looks
after having just coloured your hair. your hair needs
to be given a break from chemicals during this period of time.
Beside, you will also have the opportunity to condition and deep-
treat your hair before another application.

understanding breast cancer

Breast cancer is the most common form of cancer that effacts Malaysian women today.
Risk Factor :
* Inherited predisposition
* lifestyle
* older age
* Early menarche, late menopause
* Greater age at first full-term pregnancy and women who do not breast feed
* Long term usage of oral contraceptives or HRT
Symptoms :
* a lump or thickening in or near the breast or in the underarm area
* a change in the size or shape of the breast
* nipple discharge or tenderness or bleeding of the nipple
* the nipple is pulled back (inverted) into the breast
* dimpled skin on the breast , resembling the skin of an orange
* a change in the look or feel of the skin of the breast , areola or nipple such as warmth, swelling, redness or scaliness H&B

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

WHAT IN THE WORLD IS ...DOMS?

Doms, or delayed onset muscle soreness, happens when your muscles become sure after a session of vigorors exercise like heavy-weight lifting because of an accumulation of lactic acid, which are released in the muscles. lactic acid is a normal by product of muscles metabolism but it can also cause discomfort. DoMS is also caused by swelling in the muscles compartment the result ffrom an influx of white blood cells, prostaglandins and other fluids taht are released into the body to repair "damaged" muscles after a tough workout.

ABOUT AGEING SKIN

* 6 Things-you did'nt know about (ageing skin)
Fact 1. skin ageing typically 20's. there for you should start using anti-ageing products in your mid 20's.
Fact 2. the pull of gravity will be more pronounced on skin which has lost. its elasticity, its impact will cause the tip of the nose to droop. the ears to elongate, the eyelids to fall, jowls to form and the upper lip to dissapear while the lower lip becomes more prominent.

Fact 3. Dr.koh suggests that sunscreen is the first and most important anti-ageing product that you can use. uv rays are strongest between 10a.m and 4p.m.

Fact 4. a study conducted in 2002 showed that facial wrinkling, while not yet visible, can be seen under a microscope in smokers as young as 20. the good news is that when even heavy smokers are reported to show less facial wrinkling and an improved skin tone after they have quit smoking.

Fact 5. women who tend to sleep on their sides are most likely to see lines on their chain and cheeks. hence, a change in the position to sleeping on their backs may help because their skin will not lie crumpled againts the pillow.

Fact 6. Facial exercise cannot help to maintain a youthful-looking appearance. repetitive facial movemants can actually lead to fine lines and wrinkles.